(Written 31st May 2017)
Well, as they say, “That’s all folks”. I appear to have blinked twice since 1987 and here I am 30 years later retiring from a career that has given me so much. I’ve had many roles in my time, which seems relevant as my first police collar number was PC 57-D and just like the reference to the Heinz label I’ve certainly had variety.
I’m leaving a profession that faces many challenges. Recent events in Manchester and London clearly demonstrate that we live in a different world than the one I faced all those years ago. Despite the challenges I still feel that solutions are not as difficult as we may think.
I wanted to impart some words of wisdom to officers who continue to serve communities across the United Kingdom as well as individuals thinking of joining the police service as a career.
“To my former colleagues you are doing a wonderful job and to those aspiring to join the police, do it.”
There is no better career than the police service and it is one, where officers find themselves meeting communities and individuals on the ground that they stand on. In many cases this ground is troublesome and chaotic. As ‘Homeboy Industries’ founder Father Grieg Boyle from Los Angeles seems to suggest this when he says, “we stand on the margins of society, with those who are in the margins”. I feel privileged to have served as an officer, engaging with many different individuals and communities over the years.
My words of wisdom may sound too simple but they are what they are.
“I firmly believe that community engagement is where the magic will happen.”
How we form and develop relationships with our communities will bring us wonderful results both for the short and long term.
“That’s it, simple – ITS ALL ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS.”
For me, the key is for the service is to better understand the people we deal with and come across in our role. I can say hand on heart that over the 30 years I have met 2 individuals who I was really scared of.
“The rest, the clear majority I know now, were individuals who before 10 o’clock in the morning had already lived a day.”
As a service, we need to better understand the chaos, the trauma and complex issues that many people in the UK face today. The evidence tells us that many of our societal issues are rooted in Adverse Childhood experiences faced in the first 3 years of life.
To my former colleagues I would ask that you think of the young people that you on a regular basis: arrest, detain or search. Think also of the young people who taunt you when you drive past them. Are we as a service encouraged to think of the stories behind these individuals?
How many will have been or continue to be victims of abuse at the hands of a family member of friend?
How many will have witnessed parents fighting in the home?
How many will have lost a parent through addiction or violence?
How many have a father in prison?
How many will have witnessed violence in their community?
“I know that we as a service are not encouraged to think this way.”
I look back at incidents I attended were I found myself struggling with a prisoner, getting a punch in the face by a young person I wanted to search or shouting at the top of my voice to try and establish control. Looking back, I now think did I really know the people I was dealing with. No I didn’t and in many occasons this is still the case today. I feel we as a service are ignoring the biology of behaviour. We simply look at the behaviour and not at the pain behind the behaviour.
“If a child is being abused they won’t have the words to tell you, they only have their behaviours. It’s vital to look beyond behaviours.”
Now before you think I’m excusing behaviour, No I’m not. I’m just wanting to get people thinking about why a person may be behaving that way. I’ve moved from simply thinking “it’s about bad people making bad choices” to a position where I look at the adverse circumstances and experiences suffered. Again, I’m not excusing, simply trying to understand.
Last week’s horrible events in Manchester presented us both the worst and best in humanity. The following images reflect what we do best as a service and a ‘best’ that has been there for many years. In moments of clear crisis, we can show that compassion to those in need.
This image, a favourite, was shared a few weeks back and again shows an operational officer showing his human side. This officer like me is a father. It’s clear to me that he is using this skill to engage with the young person.
“we need even more of this and towards people who we often find in moments of their own crisis.”
As I say behaviour is often a way that a person expresses how they feel. A better understanding of childhood trauma will I feel help all officers in their roles supporting the way that they build relationships in our communities. A great resource for developing knowledge on this subject is https://acestoohigh.com/
Well as I said at the start that’s my police career finished. It’s been a blast and I leave with a mind better aware of the complex issues that we face as a society.
“It’s time we stopped looking at crime and behaviour as simply moral issues and started applying the scientific knowledge we possess.”
Criminal Justice approaches are needed but they create more problems than they were designed to solve. How we engage, interact and communicate with individuals will bring positive outcomes. We as a species are born to connect, so let’s connect.
I wish former colleagues all of the best in the years ahead. To potential officers this job is what you make of it. Enjoy it but always remember the privileged position you hold.
By Graham Goulden